an individual whose sexuality fluctuates rapidly and/or with great intensity, often with the implication that it often feels the sexuality itself changes. Because the implication is that the sexualities involved cover more than one gender, abrosexual is often included under the bisexual+ umbrella.
Many bisexual+ individuals experience a degree of fluidity or fluctuations in their attractions, for example, going through a stage where their attractions gravitate more towards a certain gender or gender expression than another, and may not necessarily mean that they are abrosexual (for example, a bisexual person may find they go through a period of time where they are strongly drawn to people of the same gender).
The difference between this fluctuation may be that it is so rapid compared to other fluctuations, and/or that it is so intense that it almost feels as if they are no longer one sexuality but another – for example, a person who finds they rapidly and/or intensely fluctuate between exclusive or primary attraction to the same gender (e.g. being gay or lesbian), to exclusive or primary attraction to a different gender (e.g. being straight), or even between those and being attracted without consideration for gender (e.g. bisexual, pansexual, etc), to the point where each label feels temporary.
Originally published: 20th July, 2021
Last modified: 6th February, 2022
an individual on the asexual spectrum, who finds their sexuality fluctuates between being asexual and allosexual.
The romantic equivalent is aroflux.
ace (from "asexual") + flux
Originally published: 1st March, 2021
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an asexual spectrum identity, in which individuals experience arousal at the thought of sexual behaviours, but experience no or little sexual attraction towards other people, or someone who experiences sexual attraction, but does not want to participate in sex; for example, an individual may masturbate, watch pornography or watch other sexual content, but still not desire to engage in sexual behaviours with other people.
This may manifest in a myriad of ways, for example, an aegosexual individual may fantasise about watching other individuals engage in sex, and not about in engaging in it themselves.
Aegosexuality was previously known as autochorisexual, a term coined by Dr. Anthony Bogaert, a psychologist that specialised in human sexuality; however, it was considered a kind of psychological disorder (along with asexuality in general). Whilst some within that identity attempted to reclaim the term, others felt uncomfortable with the negative connotations, and aegosexual was coined by a Tumblr user named Sugar-and-Spite.
a (without) + ego (myself) + sexual
Originally published: 6th February, 2022
Last modified: 6th February, 2022
A person with no, or very little, connection to the concept or traditional system of gender; someone who does not align with the traditional concepts of either being a man or woman, and/or someone who sees themselves as not having a gender at all (i.e. “without gender”), or an experience of gender that is not commonly understood.
a ("lacking, without") + gender
Originally published: 16th July, 2020
Last modified: 13th January, 2022
a less prominent alternative term to lithromantic (a form of romantic attraction on the aromantic spectrum in which individuals experience romantic attraction but do not want it to be reciprocated).
Originally published: 20th February, 2021
Last modified: 6th February, 2022
alternate term for lithosexual, although not as common (a form of sexual attraction on the asexual spectrum in which individuals experience sexual attraction but do not want it to be reciprocated).
Originally published: 19th January, 2021
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
A nonbinary gender identity associated with androgynous individuals; typically having a gender that is simultaneously feminine and masculine – but not necessarily in equal amounts. Androgynes may identify further as transgender, nonbinary and/or genderqueer.
Originally published: 16th July, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
an individual who is romantically, but not necessarily sexually attracted, to men, male-aligned people and/or masculinity (e.g. masculine expression). An androromantic person may not necessarily be androsexual.
Androromantic individuals may not consider themselves to be homoromantic or heteroromantic, as it may be an attraction to masculinity regardless of gender identity, or describe a nonbinary person’s attraction to masculinity where homo/hetero labels may not be applicable.
Originally published: 8th February, 2021
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
An individual who is primarily attracted – sexually, romantically and/or emotionally – to masculinity, male-align people, masculine expression and/or men, regardless of gender identity or whether they were assigned male at birth, and without reference to one’s own gender identity: as such androsexual people may not be heterosexual or homosexual; for example, an androsexual person may be nonbinary, or attracted to those who are on the “masculine spectrum”, regardless of gender and sex.
Androsexuality is often used as alternative to homosexual/heterosexual in the attraction spectrum, where femininity (gynesexuality) is on one end, masculinity (androsexuality) on the other, and bisexuality inbetween. Androsexuality is also sometimes included in the bisexual+ umbrella.
andro ("man, male") + sexual
Originally published: 16th July, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
an identity on the aromantic spectrum, in which an individual fluctuates between being aromantic and alloromantic.
Originally published: 1st March, 2021
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an individual who experiences little or no romantic attraction (but may experience sexual attraction – e.g. aromantic/bisexual); as such aromantic people may not necessarily be asexual.
Aromantic is also an umbrella term for the wide array of identities that fall under the aromantic umbrella: such as demiromantic, lithromantic, frayromantic, greyromantic and others.
Aromanticism and aromantic identities are typically included in the asexual spectrum.
a ("without") + romantic
Originally published: 2nd December, 2020
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
An umbrella term for a variation in romantic/sexual attractions on the asexual spectrum, but typically, an individual that experiences little or no sexual attraction to others, or those with a lack or little romantic attraction in others.
Those who are asexual may also have further labels to describe their romantic attractions (e.g. asexual, biromantic – someone having a romantic attraction to multiple genders, but no sexual attraction to them); demisexual, fraysexual, lithosexual, etc. Asexuals may not necessarily be aromantic.
a ("without") + sexual
Originally published: 16th July, 2020
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an individual who is aroused by sexual material, thoughts and fantasies, but has no desire or ambition to seek sexual relations with other people; for example, an individual who may masturbate and watch pornography, but does not have any desire to engage in sexual behaviours with other people.
Originally published: 8th February, 2021
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
a term now most commonly known as aegosexual, in which individuals experience a disconnect between the thought of sexual behaviours, and engaging in sexual behaviours. For example, an individual who may experience arousal at the thought of sex, but without the desire to actually engage in it.
auto ("self" - from Ancient Greek) + choris ("without" - from Ancient Greek) + sexual
Originally published: 6th February, 2022
Last modified: 6th February, 2022
an individual that sees themselves as having ‘two’ or ‘double’ genders, either simultaneously or varying between the two. Typically these genders are seen as male and female, or, indeed, masculine and feminine, but may also include nonbinary identities. Bigender individuals may further identify as being more masculine/male or feminine/female leaning.
Bigender individuals may present as androgynous, or present as more masculine or feminine dependent on circumstances or feelings. They may also experience a fluctuation in dysphoria.
Not to be confused with bisexual or biromantic.
Originally published: 16th July, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
a person who experiences romantic/sexual (or exclusively sexual when used with an -romantic qualifier) to multiple or all genders; somebody who is neither monosexual or asexual.
An increasingly common misconception is that bisexuality is an attraction to men and women exclusively, to the exclusion of nonbinary or transgender people, due to the prefix “bi”, meaning “two”, referring to the two extreme points of the gender binary. This has been fiercely rejected by the bisexual community; many of whom are transgender or nonbinary themselves.
The definition of bisexuality has also referred to being simultaneously heterosexual and homosexual in varying degrees (“homo-” meaning same, “hetero-” meaning different).
Bisexuality can also be seen as the middle spectrum between androsexuality and gynesexuality, or as being simultaneously androsexual and gynesexual.
As a result, bisexuality – in the theoretical sense – encompasses a wide variety of other identities, such as polysexual, pansexual, bicurious, multisexual, omnisexual, etc. Together, these form what is known as the bisexual+ umbrella.
As such, bisexual people may also identify alongside other identities such as polysexual, omnisexual or pansexual, and it’s also important to note that pan, poly, omni, etc, people may not necessarily identify as bi as well.
Bisexuals may not necessarily experience attraction to every gender in similar amounts; for example, somebody who identifies as bisexual may be primarily more attracted to one gender more than another.
bi ("two, pair, both") + sexual
bisexual umbrella, multisexual, omnisexual, pansexual, polysexual
Originally published: 16th July, 2020
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
a culturally specific term in Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander lexicon to refer to transgender, nonbinary and other gender diverse individuals who have a ‘male‘ spirit and take on male roles within the community.
This is a culturally-specific term, and should not be used as a gender identity by those not from that culture.
Originally published: 9th December, 2020
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
Somebody who is not transgender and/or nonbinary. An individual whose gender identity matches their sex assigned at birth; for example, a cisgender man is someone who presently identifies as being “male” or a “man”, and was also assigned male at birth. Cisgender individuals may also be hetero, homo, bi(+) or asexual; it is not necessarily related to their sexual identity.
cis ("on the same side") + gender
Originally published: 16th July, 2020
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an individual who identifies partly, but not wholly, as a man/boy or masculine regardless of their designated sex at birth. This may be an individual designated male at birth who only identifies partly with being a man, or, a transmasculine person who identifies more with being male than female, but not entirely or to the point of identifying as a man.
Alternative: demiman, demimale.
Related: demigirl, deminonbinary
Originally published: 21st July, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
an alternate identity to demigirl.
Originally published: 4th December, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
an individual who describes their gender identity as only partially genderfluid. An example may be an individual assigned female at birth who feels part of their gender identity is statically female, but another part is fluid between male and nonbinary.
Originally published: 4th December, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
a gender identity which comprises of the words ‘demi’ (half) + gender. Demigender is an umbrella term for the various nonbinary identities beginning with demi: e.g. demigirl, demiboy, deminonbinary, demifluid.
Although the term linguistically states half, the idea behind demigender is that one identifies partly with a gender, rather than wholly, regardless of their assigned gender at birth.
Originally published: 21st July, 2020
Last modified: 21st July, 2020
an individual who identifies partly, but not wholly, as a woman/girl or feminine regardless of their designated sex at birth. This may be an individual designated female at birth who only identifies partly with being a woman, or, a transfeminine person who identifies more with being female than male, but not entirely or to the point of identifying as a woman.
Alternative: demiwoman, demifemale.
Related: demiboy, deminonbinary
Originally published: 21st July, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
an alternate identity to demiboy.
Originally published: 4th December, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
an alternate identity for demiboy.
Originally published: 4th December, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
Originally published: 21st July, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
an individual who experiences no or little romantic attraction until a strong attachment of some sort is formed, such as an emotional attachment (or perhaps sexual connection) is formed. May be compounded to form gender orientations, e.g. demi-homoromantic.
Originally published: 16th July, 2020
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an individual who experiences no or little sexual attraction until they have formed an emotional, romantic connection towards someone. It must be noted that demisexuals are not abstaining or choosing to be celibate until forming a romantic connection – they experience little or no sexual attraction whatsoever until a romantic bond is formed.
Related: demiromantic
Originally published: 16th July, 2020
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an alternate identity for demigirl.
Originally published: 4th December, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
an individual who performs, or simply dresses, in a hyper-masculine way, most often with a theatrical aspect.
It is important to note that being a Drag King is not a gender identity in itself: Drag Kings may be of any sexuality, and of any gender identity: being a Drag performer does not automatically mean that the performer is transgender or nonbinary.
A Drag King that is also a cisgender person assigned male at birth is known as a faux king (although some consider the label problematic).
Originally published: 16th July, 2020
Last modified: 16th July, 2020
an individual who performs, or dresses for effect, in a hyper-feminine way, most often with a theatrical aspect.
It is important to note that being a Drag Queen is not a gender identity in itself: Drag Queens may be of any sexuality, and of any gender identity: being a Drag performer does not automatically mean that the performer is transgender or nonbinary.
A Drag Queen that is cisgender and assigned female at birth is known as a faux queen (although some consider the label problematic).
Originally published: 16th July, 2020
Last modified: 16th July, 2020
relating to being a woman, women, girl/girls, or femininity, or the qualities of such; for example, female scientists describes scientists who are women.
Female is also a gender identity that may be used in conjunction with other identities (such as a bisexual female, a transgender female, etc), as well as being a classification used for one’s sex assigned at birth.
A nonbinary person may describe themselves as being female-aligned.
In binary sex, individuals are often classified as being either female or male.
Originally published: 7th December, 2020
Last modified: 7th December, 2020
an identity on the aromantic spectrum, in which the romantic attraction fades once the individual develops a deep connection. As such, it can be seen as a comparable ‘opposite’ to demiromantic.
Originally published: 20th February, 2021
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an identity on the asexual spectrum, in which attraction fades once the individual develops a deep connection. As such, it can be seen as a comparable ‘opposite’ to demisexual.
Originally published: 19th January, 2021
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an individual who is primarily, or solely, attracted to people of the same gender; e.g. gay men and gay women (lesbians) – homosexuals. It is also used – such as in the case of the gay community – to describe LGBT+ people as a collective.
Originally published: 16th July, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
a male-identified person who is also a homosexual: that is, a male-identified person who is attracted solely, or primarily, to other male-identified people.
Originally published: 4th December, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
a gender identity in which an individual’s gender identity fluctuates over time, or varies in intensity.
Originally published: 22nd July, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
as an identity, it is an alternative term for agender, but can also refer to the vast array of gender identities that are partly genderless or neutral.
Elsewhere, genderless also refers to activities, clothes, traits, etc, that are seen in society as being gender-universal, that is, not prescribed, suited to or exclusive to one particular gender over another – that is, gender neutral.
Increasingly, some people are choosing to raise their children in a genderless/gender neutral way – that is, in a manner that does not prescribe gender norms or expectations.
Originally published: 7th December, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
a gender identity used to describe by people who do not identify as a binary man or woman; also used as an umbrella term for non-conforming or nonbinary identities, for example genderfluid, bigender, agender, etc.
Originally published: 16th July, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
an individual who experiences aromanticism – that is, little or no romantic attraction to others, but not to the extent of being completely aromantic: they may experience, in some degree or at fluctuating times, a romantic attraction to others, or a romantic attraction under certain circumstances.
This can manifest in a variety of different ways, from experiencing a very weak romantic attraction, experiencing romantic attraction very infrequently, experiencing romantic attraction but not wanting a romantic relationship, or experiencing a form of romantic attraction which is not aligned with the expectations of society and other alloromantic people.
As such, greyromantic is the romantic equivalent of greysexual.
Originally published: 20th February, 2021
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an individual whose sexuality is somewhere on the asexual spectrum between asexual and allosexual; that is, that their asexuality isn’t “black or white”.
As such, grey-asexuality and greysexuals encompasses a wide variety of experiences and therefore definitions.
Demisexual is an example of a greysexual identity, although demisexual is more specific in that it is a lack of sexual attraction except when there is a strong emotional and romantic bond formed; this may not be the case with other greysexual people, whose capacity and potential for sexual attraction may be dependent on something else or different to the demisexual definition.
Can be used in combination with other identities, for example, homoromantic/greysexual.
There is a -romantic equivalent, greyromantic.
Originally published: 5th January, 2021
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an individual who is romantically, but not necessarily sexually attracted, to women and/or femininity. A gyneromantic person may not necessarily be gynesexual.
Gyneromantic individuals may not consider themselves to be homoromantic or heteroromantic, as it may be an attraction to femininity regardless of gender identity, or describe a nonbinary person’s attraction to femininity where homo/hetero labels may not be applicable.
Originally published: 8th February, 2021
Last modified: 8th February, 2021
an individual who is primarily attracted – sexually, romantically and/or emotionally – to femininity, feminine expression and/or women, regardless of gender identity or whether they were assigned female at birth, and without reference to one’s own gender identity: as such androsexual people may not be heterosexual or homosexual; for example, an androsexual person may be nonbinary, or attracted to those who are on the “masculine spectrum”, regardless of gender and sex.
Gynesexuality is often used as alternative in the attraction spectrum, where femininity is one end, masculinity on the other, and bisexuality inbetween. Gynesexuality is also sometimes included in the bisexual+ umbrella.
Alternative: gynephilic.
Related: androsexual
Originally published: 16th July, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
An individual who is exclusively or predominantly attracted to members of the opposite sex or gender; but may not be heterosexual.
For example, an asexual person who is heteroromantic.
Originally published: 31st July, 2020
Last modified: 31st July, 2020
Somebody who is straight in sexuality, that is not homosexual, bisexual+, asexual. An individual who is primarily, or solely, attracted to people of a different sex or gender, typically the “opposite” one.
However, a heterosexual person may also be biromantic.
Commonly known as straight.
Related: heteroromantic
Originally published: 16th July, 2020
Last modified: 16th July, 2020
a recognised third-gender on the Indian subcontinent, comprised of people who are either eunucs, intersex or transgender. The Hijra go by many other names depending on the language, with a well-documented history.
Many Hijra face discrimination, and during the time of the British Raj (when the Indian subcontinent was colonialised by the British), many Hijra faced persecution and prosecution.
Hijra, as a term, is sometimes rejected by the people it describes in favour of other terms – but nonetheless, it is a cultural term that shouldn’t be applied to, or used by, people outside of that culture.
This is a culturally-specific term, and should not be used as a gender identity by those not from that culture. Indeed, one should exercise caution using the term at all.
Originally published: 12th February, 2021
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
An individual who is exclusively, or predominantly, romantically attracted to people of the same sex or gender.
People who are homoromantic may not be homosexual; for example, a bisexual/homoromantic person may be sexually attracted to more than one gender, but only romantically attracted to members of the same gender.
The term is particularly useful to describe asexual people who may be asexual/homoromantic.
Originally published: 31st July, 2020
Last modified: 31st July, 2020
More commonly known as gay or lesbian, a homosexual is somebody who is attracted to exclusively, or predominantly, towards people of the same gender or sex.
Many people choose not to use the term homosexual, due to its negative connotations in the past (such as homosexuality being seen as a medical/psychological disorder), and its usage as a negative term.
Related: homophile
Originally published: 31st July, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
an umbrella term for individuals that are born with sexual, reproductive, anatomical or chromosomal traits that are outside of the “typical” male/female sex binary. There is a wide range of intersex variations (previously referred to as ‘disorders of sex development‘).
Individuals with intersex variations have been forced into becoming “anatomically correct” (that is, “typical” by social and medical standards) males or females through invasive, “corrective surgeries“ as infants; for example, surgeries on their genitals to give the appearance typical of men and women. Increasingly, governments across the world are making corrective surgery illegal.
People that have intersex variations have diverse gender identities and sexualities – that is, an intersex individual’s gender or sexual orientation exists distinct from their intersex status. Like endosex people, there are many cisgender and heterosexual individuals, as well as people with intersex variations who identify as being Queer in their gender or sexuality.
Originally published: 18th July, 2020
Last modified: 13th January, 2022
a gay woman; that is, a woman who solely and/or primarily attracted to people of the same gender – a homosexual female.
The term is derived from the island of Lesbos in Greece, where the poet Sappho – who wrote about same-sex female love – came from.
Originally published: 18th July, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
a woman is who is solely or primarily romantically attracted to other women; a woman who is homoromantic, but not necessarily a homosexual – a woman who is romantically attracted to other women without necessarily being sexually attracted to them, or exclusively sexually attracted to them.
For example, a woman who is asexual/lesbiromantic; or a woman who is bisexual/lesbiromantic.
Originally published: 10th January, 2021
Last modified: 13th January, 2022
a form of sexual attraction on the asexual spectrum in which individuals experience sexual attraction but do not want it to be reciprocated. Lithosexual individuals may feel uncomfortable at the thought of someone being attracted to them and/or feel a decrease in sexual attraction towards somebody when it is reciprocated.
Also known as akoisexual, although that term is nowhere near as prominent.
Originally published: 19th January, 2021
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
a form of romantic attraction on the aromantic spectrum in which individuals experience romantic attraction but do not want it to be reciprocated. Lithromantic individuals may feel uncomfortable at the thought of someone being attracted to them and/or feel a decrease in romantic attraction towards somebody when it is reciprocated.
Also known as akoiromantic, although that term is nowhere near as prominent.
Originally published: 20th February, 2021
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
relating to being a man, men, boy/boys, masculinity, or the qualities of such; for example, a male choir is a choir made up of men.
Male is also a gender identity that may also be used in conjunction with other identities (such as a bisexual male, transgender male, etc), as well as being a classification for an individual’s sex assigned at birth.
A nonbinary person may describe themselves as being male-aligned.
In binary sex, individuals are often classified as being either male or female.
Originally published: 7th December, 2020
Last modified: 7th December, 2020
an adult male person; a gender identity, that may also be used in conjunction with other identities – such as a bisexual man, a gay man, an asexual man, etc.
Men typically have male sex characteristics. A cisgender man is a man who was assigned male at birth, a Trans man is a man who was assigned female at birth.
An intersex man is a man who was born with sex characteristics that do not fit typical notions of male biology, and as such, some may have had “corrective surgery” performed on them whilst young to “normalise” their body into being typically male (that is, to look ‘typical’ of what an endosex male body would look like).
However, men may not have typical male sex characteristics, and still be cisgender and endosex (for example, a man who cannot produce sperm).
People who were known to be mwn, and identified as such, may no longer identify as women: such as Trans women, or nonbinary people.
Originally published: 7th December, 2020
Last modified: 7th December, 2020
a nonbinary gender identity and umbrella term in which a person describes themselves as having multiple genders, for example, being genderfluid, bigender, polygender, pangender, etc; this is opposed to being agender, cisgender or binary transgender.
Originally published: 7th December, 2020
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an umbrella term for non-monosexual sexualities; an alternative to bisexual+.
Originally published: 4th December, 2020
Last modified: 4th December, 2020
a broad nonbinary/transgender identity in which individuals have a desire to make a gender neutral presentation; many define neutrois as being different to androgyne because whilst androgynous identities blend or encompass both masculine and feminine characteristics, those who are neutrois possess neither.
Originally published: 21st July, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
a gender identity in which individuals do not identify as being strictly male or female. It is also an umbrella term for a wide variety of gender identities on the gender spectrum which are not strictly male or female; that is, as the name suggests, identities that are not binary.
Nonbinary individuals are typically transgender, as they have transitioned away – in some form – from their sex assigned at birth, although not all nonbinary individuals may identify themselves as such. Many, but not all, nonbinary people have experienced gender dysphoria.
Originally published: 21st July, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
a person who experiences romantic, but not necessarily sexual, attractions to all genders. An omniromantic person may not necessarily be omnisexual.
Originally published: 8th February, 2021
Last modified: 8th February, 2021
depending on definition, it is either synonymous with pansexual – that is, an attraction to all genders – or, alternatively, it is described as being different to pansexual in that pansexuality is gender-blind attraction to all genders, whereas omnisexuality is gender-conscious attraction to all genders.
Part of the bisexual+ umbrella.
Originally published: 4th December, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
a nonbinary gender identity in which an individual possesses and/or expresses all gender identities, or, possesses all of the broad gender categories: male, female and nonbinary/other.
Pangender individuals may also further describe their gender with other identities, such as genderfluid.
Originally published: 23rd December, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
A sexual orientation where an individual is attracted to ‘all’ genders, or regardless of gender.
Sometimes synonymous with omnisexual, although a distinction is often drawn that pansexuality is a “gender-blind” attraction to all genders, whereas omnisexuality is a “gender conscious” attraction to all genders.
Some proponents of the term suggest that pansexual is more inclusive than bisexual, because it encompasses, by its definition of “all”, an attraction to transgender and nonbinary people – although this may wrongly suggest that bisexual people’s attractions are limited to cisgender men and women.
Such a distinction is fiercely disputed by many members of the bisexual community, who insist that bisexuality in itself has always been inclusive of nonbinary and transgender people; especially as that before the pansexual identity became prevalent in common parlance, gender non-conforming, nonbinary and transgender people have also identified as bisexual and have been in relationships with bisexual-identified people.
Essentially, it is a personal preference to identify as pansexual or bisexual, and many bisexuals and pansexuals will use the terms interchangeably. Pansexuality falls under the bisexual+ umbrella.
Originally published: 17th July, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
An individual who desires relationships with more than one more person; people who are in relationships that involve more than two people – a polyamorous relationship.
Polyamorous people identify as polyamorous, and typically seek out other polyamorous people, or people open to polyamorous relationships (even if they themselves are not polyamorous) to form relationships with.
This is not the same as cheating: polyamory is based on informed consent – that is, that everybody involved in the relationship is aware; this could be an open relationship (where individuals involved are free to explore sexual and/or romantic relationships elsewhere), committed relationships which involve more than two people (e.g. a relationship with and between three people), or relationships in which one or both members have other relationships outside of that relationship.
Polyamorous relationships may be between two (or more) committed people in which both/all/some members engage in recreational or social sexual activity with others (such as swinging).
As such, polyamorous relationships can be diverse.
Not to be confused with polysexual.
Originally published: 17th July, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
a nonbinary gender identity in which an individual considers themselves to have, or express, multiple genders.
This is different to being pangender (having or expressing ‘all’ genders), agender (no gender) or bigender (having or expressing two genders, or simultaneously male/female). Polygender individuals may also identify with other nonbinary gender identities, such as being genderqueer or genderflux/genderfluid.
Originally published: 7th December, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
a person who experiences romantic, but not necessarily sexual, attractions to multiple, but not all genders. A panromantic person may not necessarily be polysexual.
Originally published: 8th February, 2021
Last modified: 6th February, 2022
A polysexual person is an individual who is attracted to multiple, but not all genders.
Polysexuality falls under the bisexual+ umbrella; and as a result, some bisexuals may further identify as polysexual. Such examples may be individuals who are attracted to nonbinary people and women/femininity, but not men/masculinity.
Within the bisexual+ umbrella, polysexual may describe the distinction between pansexual and non-pansexual bisexuals.
Originally published: 31st July, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
An umbrella, catch-all term for LGBTQIA+ people; that is, the Queer Community, those who are not heterosexual and cisgender (“cishet“).
May also be used by people to describe their sexuality in a way that excludes preconceived labels; such as those who feel their sexuality does not fit neatly into prescribed definitions such as gay, lesbian, bisexual+, asexual etc.
In terms of gender identity, it is used typically as genderqueer, with much the same meaning in regards to queer sexuality, that is, one’s gender does not fit neatly into other identities.
Queer was originally used as an insult towards LGBTQIA+ individuals; but has been reclaimed by Queer people – the adjective queer is distinct from Queer with a capital “Q”. It is used in academia to describe various disciplines that relate to Queer topics, such as Queer literature, Queer health, etc.
The term is still considered problematic by some LGBTQIA+ individuals who still see it as a pejorative term; particularly in the United States of America where the word “queer” was used in a particularly hateful manner, such as with Queer bashings.
However, in other countries, particularly in the United Kingdom and Australia, the word has been reclaimed rather successfully (in much the same way gay has), and continues to be used as shorthand/umbrella term for the LGBTQIA+ community.
Originally published: 17th July, 2020
Last modified: 17th July, 2020
an identity on the aromantic spectrum, in which an individual does not experience a romantic attraction to someone else until they’re aware that someone is romantically attracted to them. Reciproromantic individuals may – or may not – be reciprosexual.
Originally published: 1st March, 2021
Last modified: 14th February, 2022
an identity under the asexual umbrella, in which an individual does not experience attraction until they’re aware somebody is attracted to them first. Reciprosexual individuals may, or may not, also be reciproromantic.
Originally published: 1st March, 2021
Last modified: 14th February, 2022
a culturally specific term in Australian Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander lexicon to refer to transgender, nonbinary and other gender diverse individuals who have a ‘female‘ spirit and take on female roles within the community.
This is a culturally-specific term, and should not be used as a gender identity by those not from that culture.
Originally published: 9th December, 2020
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an individual who is primarily or exclusively attracted to nonbinary and/or transgender individuals – essentially, an attraction to individuals who are not cisgender, although not necessarily all gender identities.
However, the term may be considered problematic as the term comes from the Greek for “crooked” or “curved”, suggesting non-cisgender people are broken; whilst others too have pointed out it may ‘other’ Trans men and women as not being true men and women.
Further, some have argued that the label may suggest a fetish, rather than an attraction – although this has also been disputed by non-cisgender individuals too.
For example, a skoliosexual person may be solely or primarily attracted to genderqueer individuals in much the same way gay men are attracted to other gay men.
Originally published: 30th January, 2021
Last modified: 30th January, 2021
A nonbinary and/or transgender identity in which individuals do not identify as male or female, but a third gender. Also an umbrella term for a wide-variety of gender identities.
The term third gender has also been used in non-Western societies to describe individuals who fall outside of traditional gender norms, roles and expectations, and those societies and cultures that recognise more than two genders.
Sometimes synonymous with nonbinary.
Originally published: 17th July, 2020
Last modified: 17th July, 2020
A man who was assigned female at birth; somebody who is a man and transgender.
Originally published: 16th July, 2020
Last modified: 16th July, 2020
A woman who was assigned male at birth; somebody who is a woman and transgender.
Originally published: 16th July, 2020
Last modified: 16th July, 2020
an individual who was assigned male at birth, but identify with femininity to a greater extent than they do with masculinity.
An identity in its own, transfeminine individuals may also identify in a multitude of other ways, such as being a Trans woman, demigirl, multigender/polygender, genderfluid, demifluid or nonbinary.
Originally published: 21st July, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
Used as an umbrella term for people whose gender identity and/or gender expression differs from their sex assigned at birth. Individuals may identify as male, female, nonbinary or a number of other gender identities.
Not to be confused with transsexual, although many transsexuals may also identify as transgender: but certainly, not all transgender individuals are, or identify with, transsexual.
Originally published: 17th July, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
an individual who was assigned female at birth, but identify with masculinity to a greater extent than they do with femininity.
An identity in its own, transmasculine individuals may also identify in a multitude of other ways, such as being a Trans man, demiboy, multigender/polygender, genderfluid, demifluid or nonbinary.
Originally published: 21st July, 2020
Last modified: 12th January, 2022
a term originating in Indigenous North American communities in 1990, to describe people who fulfill a traditional third-gender or gender variant role in traditional societies; the “two-spirit” relates to individuals who possess the traditional masculine and feminine qualities.
It should be noted, however, that not all two-spirit individuals associate themselves with the LGBTQIA+ community.
This is a culturally-specific term, and should not be used as a gender identity by those not from that culture.
Originally published: 16th July, 2020
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an adult female person; a gender identity, that may also be used in conjunction with other identities – such as a bisexual woman, a gay woman, an asexual woman, etc.
Women typically have female sex characteristics. A cisgender woman is a woman who was assigned female at birth, a Trans woman is a woman who was assigned male at birth.
An intersex woman is a woman who was born with sex characteristics that do not fit typical notions of female biology, and as such, some may have had “corrective surgery” performed on them whilst young to “normalise” their body into being typically female (that is, to look ‘typical’ of what an endosex female body would look like).
However, women may not have typical female sex characteristics, and still be cisgender and endosex (for example, a woman who cannot produce ova).
People who were known to be women, and identified as such, may no longer identify as women: such as Trans men, or nonbinary people.
Originally published: 7th December, 2020
Last modified: 7th December, 2020