an individual on the asexual spectrum, who finds their sexuality fluctuates between being asexual and allosexual.
The romantic equivalent is aroflux.
ace (from "asexual") + flux
Originally published: 1st March, 2021
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an asexual spectrum identity, in which individuals experience arousal at the thought of sexual behaviours, but experience no or little sexual attraction towards other people, or someone who experiences sexual attraction, but does not want to participate in sex; for example, an individual may masturbate, watch pornography or watch other sexual content, but still not desire to engage in sexual behaviours with other people.
This may manifest in a myriad of ways, for example, an aegosexual individual may fantasise about watching other individuals engage in sex, and not about in engaging in it themselves.
Aegosexuality was previously known as autochorisexual, a term coined by Dr. Anthony Bogaert, a psychologist that specialised in human sexuality; however, it was considered a kind of psychological disorder (along with asexuality in general). Whilst some within that identity attempted to reclaim the term, others felt uncomfortable with the negative connotations, and aegosexual was coined by a Tumblr user named Sugar-and-Spite.
a (without) + ego (myself) + sexual
Originally published: 6th February, 2022
Last modified: 6th February, 2022
a less prominent alternative term to lithromantic (a form of romantic attraction on the aromantic spectrum in which individuals experience romantic attraction but do not want it to be reciprocated).
Originally published: 20th February, 2021
Last modified: 6th February, 2022
alternate term for lithosexual, although not as common (a form of sexual attraction on the asexual spectrum in which individuals experience sexual attraction but do not want it to be reciprocated).
Originally published: 19th January, 2021
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an identity on the aromantic spectrum, in which an individual fluctuates between being aromantic and alloromantic.
Originally published: 1st March, 2021
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an individual who experiences little or no romantic attraction (but may experience sexual attraction – e.g. aromantic/bisexual); as such aromantic people may not necessarily be asexual.
Aromantic is also an umbrella term for the wide array of identities that fall under the aromantic umbrella: such as demiromantic, lithromantic, frayromantic, greyromantic and others.
Aromanticism and aromantic identities are typically included in the asexual spectrum.
a ("without") + romantic
Originally published: 2nd December, 2020
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
An umbrella term for a variation in romantic/sexual attractions on the asexual spectrum, but typically, an individual that experiences little or no sexual attraction to others, or those with a lack or little romantic attraction in others.
Those who are asexual may also have further labels to describe their romantic attractions (e.g. asexual, biromantic – someone having a romantic attraction to multiple genders, but no sexual attraction to them); demisexual, fraysexual, lithosexual, etc. Asexuals may not necessarily be aromantic.
a ("without") + sexual
Originally published: 16th July, 2020
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an individual who is aroused by sexual material, thoughts and fantasies, but has no desire or ambition to seek sexual relations with other people; for example, an individual who may masturbate and watch pornography, but does not have any desire to engage in sexual behaviours with other people.
Originally published: 8th February, 2021
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
a term now most commonly known as aegosexual, in which individuals experience a disconnect between the thought of sexual behaviours, and engaging in sexual behaviours. For example, an individual who may experience arousal at the thought of sex, but without the desire to actually engage in it.
auto ("self" - from Ancient Greek) + choris ("without" - from Ancient Greek) + sexual
Originally published: 6th February, 2022
Last modified: 6th February, 2022
an individual who experiences no or little romantic attraction until a strong attachment of some sort is formed, such as an emotional attachment (or perhaps sexual connection) is formed. May be compounded to form gender orientations, e.g. demi-homoromantic.
Originally published: 16th July, 2020
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an individual who experiences no or little sexual attraction until they have formed an emotional, romantic connection towards someone. It must be noted that demisexuals are not abstaining or choosing to be celibate until forming a romantic connection – they experience little or no sexual attraction whatsoever until a romantic bond is formed.
Related: demiromantic
Originally published: 16th July, 2020
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an identity on the aromantic spectrum, in which the romantic attraction fades once the individual develops a deep connection. As such, it can be seen as a comparable ‘opposite’ to demiromantic.
Originally published: 20th February, 2021
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an identity on the asexual spectrum, in which attraction fades once the individual develops a deep connection. As such, it can be seen as a comparable ‘opposite’ to demisexual.
Originally published: 19th January, 2021
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an individual who experiences aromanticism – that is, little or no romantic attraction to others, but not to the extent of being completely aromantic: they may experience, in some degree or at fluctuating times, a romantic attraction to others, or a romantic attraction under certain circumstances.
This can manifest in a variety of different ways, from experiencing a very weak romantic attraction, experiencing romantic attraction very infrequently, experiencing romantic attraction but not wanting a romantic relationship, or experiencing a form of romantic attraction which is not aligned with the expectations of society and other alloromantic people.
As such, greyromantic is the romantic equivalent of greysexual.
Originally published: 20th February, 2021
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an individual whose sexuality is somewhere on the asexual spectrum between asexual and allosexual; that is, that their asexuality isn’t “black or white”.
As such, grey-asexuality and greysexuals encompasses a wide variety of experiences and therefore definitions.
Demisexual is an example of a greysexual identity, although demisexual is more specific in that it is a lack of sexual attraction except when there is a strong emotional and romantic bond formed; this may not be the case with other greysexual people, whose capacity and potential for sexual attraction may be dependent on something else or different to the demisexual definition.
Can be used in combination with other identities, for example, homoromantic/greysexual.
There is a -romantic equivalent, greyromantic.
Originally published: 5th January, 2021
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
a form of sexual attraction on the asexual spectrum in which individuals experience sexual attraction but do not want it to be reciprocated. Lithosexual individuals may feel uncomfortable at the thought of someone being attracted to them and/or feel a decrease in sexual attraction towards somebody when it is reciprocated.
Also known as akoisexual, although that term is nowhere near as prominent.
Originally published: 19th January, 2021
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
a form of romantic attraction on the aromantic spectrum in which individuals experience romantic attraction but do not want it to be reciprocated. Lithromantic individuals may feel uncomfortable at the thought of someone being attracted to them and/or feel a decrease in romantic attraction towards somebody when it is reciprocated.
Also known as akoiromantic, although that term is nowhere near as prominent.
Originally published: 20th February, 2021
Last modified: 15th January, 2022
an identity on the aromantic spectrum, in which an individual does not experience a romantic attraction to someone else until they’re aware that someone is romantically attracted to them. Reciproromantic individuals may – or may not – be reciprosexual.
Originally published: 1st March, 2021
Last modified: 14th February, 2022
an identity under the asexual umbrella, in which an individual does not experience attraction until they’re aware somebody is attracted to them first. Reciprosexual individuals may, or may not, also be reciproromantic.
Originally published: 1st March, 2021
Last modified: 14th February, 2022