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discreet
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sexualityslang

a slang term describing gay and bisexual men who are not out of the closet and not planning to be; on dating apps such as Grindr, individuals describing themselves as ‘discreet’ are generally looking for or offering sexual encounters that are casual, one-off and/or taking place without any romantic interest that will be kept secret – for example, a man who may be in a heterosexual relationship looking for no strings attached sex with another man; or a heterosexual-identified person who may be bicurious and looking to explore that side of their sexuality without people knowing.

Discreet may also be used by people in same-sex relationships who are looking for sexual encounters behind their partner’s back.

Originally published: 9th December, 2020
Last modified: 9th December, 2020

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